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Conference 2003

Following just 18 months after our first conference, which had been praised as a
great success, it was hard to envisage how we might improve upon the
achievements of that conference.
I believe I speak for all concerned - committee, members, children, and speakers
who attended the conference – when I say that we more than surpassed our
expectations on Saturday 8th March. The conference was attended by 105 adult
members, 34 children, and six speakers. This number does not include the seven
members who were unable to make the conference at the last moment.
Thank you to everyone who joined us in Birmingham. At the time of writing I have
not seen the feedback from the evaluation forms completed on the day. However,
going on personal comments made to me immediately after the conference, members
not only found the speakers and audience participation
informative, but also found the opportunity to meet others and make new friends
invaluable. And all this within the very pleasant surroundings of a hotel of
high standard, providing a quality service and dedicated staff.
The conference started well with an extremely interesting talk from Mr Grimer,
which immediately wooed members into challenging some of the facts presented, so
leading to Mr Grimer himself to reconsider some of those facts.
Several interesting ideas were put forward by Mr Grimer including, the
suggestion of a dedicated HME clinic at The Royal Orthopaedic Hospital,
Birmingham. This and other ideas are now being followed up and we will keep you
advised of any progress.
Dr. Splitt’s talk on “Genetic Testing and Pre-Natal Testing” also revealed just
how quickly this field is moving forward. Once again members had interesting
questions for Dr. Splitt. By the end of the morning session we were already
running 15 minutes over our schedule!
Lunchtime provided good food and opportunity to chat to other members and
speakers. Then came our first AGM, chaired by Helen Small and Steve Harding.
Although a formality it was important that we followed the requirements of the
Charities Commission. The minutes of the AGM are published in this newsletter,
but suffice to say that all voting for the positions of chair and committee were
carried unanimously and the committee could all breathe a sigh of relief!
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Further interesting talks followed throughout the afternoon with Mr Porter being
challenged by members on his topic of “Stature in HME”. Mr Bradish provided
information on latest techniques in “Limb Lengthening”, and after a break for
tea, Mr Lonie revealed the latest in “The search for EXT3” and Sophia
Mavrommatis gave lots of ideas and reiterated the importance of pain management.
Once again it would appear that the speakers themselves enjoyed the discussion
and openness of members and were able to take away their own food for thought.
Unfortunately, we were unable to video the conference this year as Bob
Champeau, who had again agreed to offer his expertise, was suddenly called into
work.
The children who attended the crèche and workshop appeared to enjoy themselves
and made lots of new friends throughout the day.
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| Conference 2003: younger members about to start a game of Monopoly. |
For the older children there was a special treat during the afternoon, with a
visit to a local ten-pin bowling alley, where, I understand, everyone had great
fun and entered into the spirit of the game.
The evening brought two new events to the conference itinerary. 85 members,
including 23 children, enjoyed the carvery dinner. The food and service was of
the highest standard, therefore providing the perfect environment in which to
unwind and chat some more with new friends.
Numbers for the social event in the evening were 74 including 21 children.
Children of all ages jumped to their feet the moment the disco started at
7.30pm! Later on in the evening many of their parents also enjoyed a “trip down
memory lane” as the DJ provided throughout the evening the perfect mix of
current popular and retro-70s/80s music to suit all tastes and ages. The disco
was a great way to unwind at the end of an exciting and often hectic day!
The raffle drawn during the course of the evening raised £209, with the first
prize being dinner, bed and breakfast at the Westley Hotel. Thank you to
everyone who bought tickets.
There are so many people to thank. Firstly I should mention the London Law Trust
who provided a £1,000 grant towards the expenses of the conference.
Particular thanks must also go to Dawn Searle, our fundraiser. Dawn’s constant
efforts to raise funds ensure that we are able to organise a conference of such
a high quality. Also thank you to members who have contributed donations and
also raised funds for the support group over the past few years. As you are
probably aware, to hold a conference of this size involves a lot of funds and
your contributions are invaluable.
Special thanks go to the committee and respective spouses, for their support on
the day and their efforts leading up to the conference. Further thanks also go
to the speakers who once again gave their time and commitment and provided so
much for us all to talk about. Members deserving of a special mention include
John and Alison Prewer for their help at the start of the conference, Pat
Staniford whose help was again invaluable in the crèche, and also to Laura
Fletcher who helped to look after the older children.
Finally, a big thank you to our members and all the children who attended
because without your support the conference could not succeed. If I have missed
anyone out please accept my sincere apologies.
And so to the future… The current plan is to hold our next conference in two
years’ time. It is almost certain that we will retain a similar format, with a
conference followed by a dinner and evening event. We have already got lots of
ideas and suggestions for the next conference. Comments from the evaluation
forms and those verbally received will be taken into consideration. The date and
arrangements will be advised as soon as confirmed.
In the meantime, thank you again for your continued support.
Sarah Nicholls
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| Conference 2003: Sarah, Charlotte and
Tom Nicholls enjoy a book at bedtime. |
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| The magic works. Where is Sarah?
On the dancefloor! |
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Kids' Bit

Hello friends… My name is Chloe, I am nine years old and I have HME. I first
found out when my knee locked, it was very painful until they gave me laughing
gas to sort me out. HME is not really a problem for me at the moment but I have
a condition (through HME) that has fixed both my heel bones together. This is
really painful but I have insoles in my shoes to try and make it go away.
My gran, my mother and my sister, who is six, all have HME so I have people that
I can talk to if I get really fed up – after all, there are lots of people who
are worse off than me.
I do Kung Fu, swimming and lots of P.E because my calf muscles are too short
(because of HME) so I have to try and make them longer through lots of exercise.
My mother has booked us into the hotel in March for the conference so I hope to
see all HME children so I can talk with you and get some advice and maybe get
some pen pals.
See you soon
Chloe
Chloe can be contacted through the HMESG email address –
support@hmesg.co.uk.
Out and about with...

Dawn is busy working on a new fund raising project – more news as it
becomes available!
“Activity” days for young people - one of our members, who is a Youth
Worker, has suggested starting these as a way of having fun/sharing
experiences/offering support and raising self-esteem. Please let us know your
views.
Chat Magazine - There was an article on HME in “Chat”
magazine (issue 15), on page 18. It is written by a 17 year old with HME and there
was also a good advert for the Support Group. This was brought to our attention
by a new member who had joined the group as a result of seeing the article.
Carers Week – Carers UK campaigns to improve services and support for
carers, and also provides CarersLine – an information and advice line for carers
– freephone 0808 808 777. Carers Week is 9 – 15 June and is a consortium formed
by Carers UK, Contact a Family, Crossroads – Caring for Carers and The Princess
Royal Trust for Carers. Carers week objectives are to help and support the UK’s
seven million carers to recognise and carry out their role, campaign for better
services and support for carers, raise awareness about the role and needs of
carers with the general public, professionals, politicians and other
decision-makers and to reach out to hidden carers in black and ethnic minority
communities and other disadvantaged groups and communities. More details from
Carers Week on 020 7566 7608,
mail@carersweek.org or their website
www.carersweek.org
Contact a Family has produced an information pack entitled “Disabled – education
and disability – a parent’s guide to rights from nursery to university”. This is
very good and is full of useful information – copies are available, free, by
contacting the CaF freephone helpline on 0808 808 3555 between 10.00 am and 4.00
pm Monday to Friday, or by email on helpline@cafamily.org.uk.
Please note that, due to funding, some of the information relating to special
educational needs in the pack does not apply to Scotland, Northern Ireland or
Wales – for education advice in these areas please call the CaF helpline.
Did you know that CaF also produce factsheets on a range of issues? Titles
include “A Genetic Condition in the Family”, “Siblings”, “Benefits
for disabled children and their families” and many more. Please call the CaF free helpline
(0808 808 3555) for more details.
Parent Partnership Service - Following publication of the Code of Practice on
the Identification and Assessment of Special Educational Needs (DfES: 1994)
parent partnership services were established in many Local Educational
Authorities (LEA) with the support of central government grants.
Services were designed to provide information, advice and support for parents of
children and young people with special educational needs (SEN), particularly
during statutory assessment and the issuing of a statement. The SEN and
Disability Act 2001 make parent partnership services a statutory requirement
from January 2002.
This is a very helpful Service - as tested by one of our members! For more
information please contact your Local Education Authority or visit
www.parentpartnership.org.uk.
The website contains a list of all Parent
Partnership Services in the UK.
and there's more...

Important Advice – there is an aspect of HME, which is rare, but it is
important that it is known about. It is possible that an exostosis can change
into a malignant tumour, which is usually slow growing and can often be cured.
The chances of this happening really are rare and according to Mr Grimer,
Consultant Orthopaedic Oncologist, who spoke at our conference, the chances of
this happening in a child are extremely rare.
The warning signs are an increase in size or discomfort of an exostosis after
growth has stopped, or unusually rapid growth of one. These changes should be
reported to your doctor who can arrange further investigation with an
Orthopaedic Surgeon.
At the Conference, Mr Grimer reported that the most common age of malignant
change in HME is 35 years and the most likely place is in the pelvis. Nobody
knows why this is. His expert advice is that people who suffer with HME should
have an x-ray of the pelvis at the age of 20 then every five years to check for
malignant change in exostoses. We are passing on this advice and suggest that
you speak to your specialist for further information.
Although people with HME are more likely to
develop a malignant lump than other people, the risk should be kept
in proportion. For example, for a female, it's less than the risk
that all women face of developing breast cancer. It is rare, but we
should be aware of the facts.
Click here for more information.
Tiredness in HME – In our last issue we had a letter from Susan MacDonald
who wonders about a connection between ME and HME. Since then several members
have mentioned tiredness in HME and in particular that their children seem to
tire more easily than others. We would like to hear from anybody that may have a
view on this. Do you agree or disagree with this? Does this affect you or a
family member? Contact us in the usual way.
We are starting an HMESG experiences register - please see details at the
end of the newsletter.
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